Criticism...is good
Favor ("Criticism...is good")
- The good form of criticism is known as constructive criticism; it offers valid feedback both positive and negative.
- A constructive criticism can lend much needed assistance to an individual by giving them feedback on things that can be improved and issues that can be avoided.
- A constructive criticism can also help establish your credibility and expertise by ensuring that you know what you’re talking about, and the people who benefit from your constructive criticism will be more likely to credit you in some way or form for playing a part in their success.
- Constructive criticism can also keep feelings from being hurt by focusing on things that can be improved while avoiding personal attacks or insults.
Against ("Criticism...is bad")
- Criticism can demotivate person from moving forward
- Few people use criticism to humiliate the people and influence their image in bad way.
- Sometimes a criticism can lower confidence of a person so criticizer should be fair
- Deliberate criticism is very popular in modern society to achieve the selfish motives.
Conclusion
- Every form of criticism constructive or destructive affects a person one way or another, it will either motivate him to try harder or deflate his enthusiasm, so it depends upon the person to whom that criticism is directed how he takes it. But it calls for introspection on his part to do that with justice. If you have someone who's trying to take you away from your path to success and intentionally trying to just ruin your chances for success you can label it constructive and if someone is criticizing you for your betterment and asking you to quit your bad habits them you can label it otherwise.
- Lord Gautam Buddha was in deep meditation. At that time, a person came near him and starts abusing him. He starts criticizing and abusing Buddha badly. But he was surprised to see that there was not even an iota of change in Buddha's expressions. He was as calm and smiling as before. That person gave up and started apologizing for his mistake. He then asked Buddha, "Lord, how is it that you were not offended by my abuses and criticism?" On this, Buddha said, "Dear, I never accepted what you said. So that way your abuses and bad criticism was back to you. Then why should I feel offended?" So true, isn't it? Anyway, we're nowhere close to Lord Buddha. But we can definitely follow what he said. Often we get offended by others' bad remarks and destructive criticism and feel bad for no reason. If we don't accept their words, see how insulted the other one will feel!
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Added by: ruchi chaturvedi
Point: i think it is good coz if we take as a positive way than will start improving in us
Date: 2013-02-03 13:09:47
Point: i think it is good coz if we take as a positive way than will start improving in us
Date: 2013-02-03 13:09:47
Added by: ms babita chand
Point: i think criticism should be done in a limit..... than the person will not feel so bad and may be he will improve himself.... bt its depends also to the person dat how he is taking dis... so just critisism sud b done on those who can take diz in a positive way.....
Date: 2013-01-22 11:31:36
Point: i think criticism should be done in a limit..... than the person will not feel so bad and may be he will improve himself.... bt its depends also to the person dat how he is taking dis... so just critisism sud b done on those who can take diz in a positive way.....
Date: 2013-01-22 11:31:36
Added by: Rewa
Point: There are 2 aspects of giving and taking criticism. The person who criticises somebody should keep one thing in mind that the other person doesn't get demotivated to improve or correct the mistake by the way he speaks. Also, the receiver should not get adversely affected by criticism. If he thinks criticism was for something good, he should think about it and act on that and if he feels it wrong and rude, he can anytime ignore it.
Date: 2013-01-15 04:52:33
Point: There are 2 aspects of giving and taking criticism. The person who criticises somebody should keep one thing in mind that the other person doesn't get demotivated to improve or correct the mistake by the way he speaks. Also, the receiver should not get adversely affected by criticism. If he thinks criticism was for something good, he should think about it and act on that and if he feels it wrong and rude, he can anytime ignore it.
Date: 2013-01-15 04:52:33
Added by: K.S.Venkatesh
Point: according to my view criticism is two sides.. one side is good and also another side is dad.some people use criticism to dominate the other person in very bad way.that person suppose to get anger...In good way when one person feels dab for criticism then he will gradually stars improving.....
Date: 2012-11-18 04:10:57
Point: according to my view criticism is two sides.. one side is good and also another side is dad.some people use criticism to dominate the other person in very bad way.that person suppose to get anger...In good way when one person feels dab for criticism then he will gradually stars improving.....
Date: 2012-11-18 04:10:57
Added by: K.S.Venkatesh
Point: according to my view criticism is two sides.. one side is good and also another side is dad.when we criticise other's definetly he will get anger..so my view better to don't criticise othars...
Date: 2012-11-18 04:03:49
Point: according to my view criticism is two sides.. one side is good and also another side is dad.when we criticise other's definetly he will get anger..so my view better to don't criticise othars...
Date: 2012-11-18 04:03:49
Added by: monu
Point: i think some time criticism broken the tolirent of a person because we r the human beings and we have a limit to listen a bad criticism about yourself
Date: 2012-10-31 04:51:30
Point: i think some time criticism broken the tolirent of a person because we r the human beings and we have a limit to listen a bad criticism about yourself
Date: 2012-10-31 04:51:30
Added by: shalu
Point: according to me criticism is bad.you know if we criticise someone abt something. only their anger will be increased.so better we don't want to criticise other.
Date: 2012-10-06 12:29:37
Point: according to me criticism is bad.you know if we criticise someone abt something. only their anger will be increased.so better we don't want to criticise other.
Date: 2012-10-06 12:29:37
Added by: siddharth
Point: simple fact and a very good example of lord buddha stated above, criticism whether constuctive or destructive at a later stage helps everyone bcoz if u FEEL bad for being criticized u gradually starts improving .
Date: 2012-09-24 01:10:38
Point: simple fact and a very good example of lord buddha stated above, criticism whether constuctive or destructive at a later stage helps everyone bcoz if u FEEL bad for being criticized u gradually starts improving .
Date: 2012-09-24 01:10:38
Added by: Kavinkumar
Point: In a class room, A teacher scolding a guy and she criticized him. the boy get tensed. On next day, that boy killed that teacher by using knife. the life of boy get spoiled because of the criticism. It is a real story which is happened in INDIA.
Date: 2012-07-31 00:53:26
Point: In a class room, A teacher scolding a guy and she criticized him. the boy get tensed. On next day, that boy killed that teacher by using knife. the life of boy get spoiled because of the criticism. It is a real story which is happened in INDIA.
Date: 2012-07-31 00:53:26
Added by: sushree
Point: criticism is good because one can mark own weaknss behind its sucess.but there is saying that in hindi"sach hamesa kadwa hota he"so it takes sometimes bad roll for some one.it an hurts some one's feelings.
Date: 2012-05-08 10:32:31
Point: criticism is good because one can mark own weaknss behind its sucess.but there is saying that in hindi"sach hamesa kadwa hota he"so it takes sometimes bad roll for some one.it an hurts some one's feelings.
Date: 2012-05-08 10:32:31
Added by: Renu
Point: criticism make people to take good decision. but sometimes it can lower the confidence of people.
Date: 2012-04-04 14:18:21
Point: criticism make people to take good decision. but sometimes it can lower the confidence of people.
Date: 2012-04-04 14:18:21
Added by: arpita aparajita
Point: criticism is bad so in our colleges raging which is another form of criticism has been prohibited. some times excess criticism may lead to suicide
Date: 2012-03-23 20:05:35
Point: criticism is bad so in our colleges raging which is another form of criticism has been prohibited. some times excess criticism may lead to suicide
Date: 2012-03-23 20:05:35
Added by: bannubihari swain
Point: every body also depends on criticism.because after criticism they take final decision.correct decision also based on right feedback
Date: 2012-03-23 13:56:22
Point: every body also depends on criticism.because after criticism they take final decision.correct decision also based on right feedback
Date: 2012-03-23 13:56:22
Added by: amsui
Point: in my point of view criticism is good only.... from that we can grump our self..everyone take it in positive way....try to avoid that...
Date: 2012-03-03 08:02:25
Point: in my point of view criticism is good only.... from that we can grump our self..everyone take it in positive way....try to avoid that...
Date: 2012-03-03 08:02:25
Added by: minesh
Point: example of lord buddha was very nice point included...
Date: 2011-09-28 01:32:13
Point: example of lord buddha was very nice point included...
Date: 2011-09-28 01:32:13